Thursday, April 8, 2021

Importance of words

 

Importance of words

‘Sorry’, ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ are the supernatural words that make a person believe important, mollify tempers, make stronger bonds and at times restore strained relationships.

YOU come rushing into the kitchen where mummy is busy preparing lunch and announce, “I am feeling hungry and want something to eat!”

Mummy gives you a tired look, but at the same time she speedily fixes bread and butter for you and serves it to you with a glass of milk. You eat greedily your snack in front of the television and declare, “I am going to do my work” and head to your room, leaving behind your empty plate and glass on the lounge table.

Now look at the same circumstances with a better way. You walk into the kitchen and softly watch mummy as she seems busy. Then you say graciously, “Can I disturb you mummy, I am feeling hungry. Please can I have a snack?”

After finishing what your mother has served you, you're taking your plate to the sink (or better still, wash it), walk up to your mother and with a hug say, “Thank you mummy, bread and butter was delicious.”

Which of the above two situations would make your mother feel more pleasant and happy? We know that it is the responsibility of our parents to accomplish our needs, whether they are small or big. Our parents are always out there to supply to our requirements. They endeavor hard to keep us happy, comfortable and content, but they also expect a polite and grateful approach from us in return. At times, however not deliberately, we fail to acknowledge their efforts. Our attitude when we want somewhat can either make them cheerful or aggravated them! We must understand that there's a really thin line between a requirement and an invitation , but often we fail to feel the difference.

Friends, we must be aware of that all relations are based on the policy of Give and Take! Children are usually on the receiving end, but by showing their appreciation when their requirements are met, asking for something in a polite manner and apologizing when they have done something wrong or have hurt someone, is their way of return the efforts of their elders.

‘Sorry’, ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ are often called supernatural words because they work like magic!.

We must understand that there's a really thin line between a requirement and an invitation , but often we fail to ascertain the difference

 

from:-

VINITA SAXENA

SIRTE

 

 

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